Breaking the ice
In this session we talked about how to start a conversation. It can be difficult to know how to enter into conversation with strangers.
One way is to eavesdrop discreetly before entering into the conversation, to get an idea of what is being talked about. Another way is to just walk around and mingle with people first, without getting into any heavy conversation.
This helps us to get an idea of what topics are being spoken about and allows us to prepare some good conversation openers to get the ball rolling.
- Excuse me. Do you have a light? (for smokers)
- Hello. My name’s ……………. Is it ok if I join your group?
- Are you here alone or with a group?
- And what about you? Where are you from?
- It’s cold out here, isn’t it?
- I just came out for some fresh air, it’s so crowded inside.
- Sorry, do you mind if I join you?
- Are you giving a presentation at the conference?
- This salad is delicious. Have you tried it?
- Do you know many people here?
- Are you enjoying the conference/ party/ event?
- It’s a great conference/ party/ event isn’t it?
- Is this your first time at this conference/ party/ event?
- Did you attend any good presentations today?
- Do you know where I can find the spoons/ cloakroom,/etc.?
- Did you enjoy this morning’s/ evening’s lecture?
- Have you travelled a long way to get here?
- What do you do?
- Are you from around here?
- Could you pass me the milk/ sugar/ water/ etc. please?